I AM YOUR PUPPY
I am your Puppy, and I will love you until the end of
the Earth, but please know a few things about me.
I
am a Puppy, this means that my intelligence and capacity for learning are the
same as an 8-month-old child. I am a Puppy; I will chew EVERYTHING I can get my
teeth on. This is how I explore and learn about the world. Even HUMAN children
put things in their mouths. It's up to you to guide me to what is mine to chew
and what is not.
I
am a Puppy; I cannot hold my bladder for longer than 1 - 2 hours. I cannot
"feel" that I need to poop until it is actually beginning to come
out. I cannot vocalize nor tell you that I need to go, and I cannot have
"bladder and bowel control" until 6 - 9 months. Do not punish me if
you have not let me out for 3 hours and I tinkle. It is your fault. As a Puppy,
it is wise to remember that I NEED to go potty after: Eating, Sleeping,
Playing, Drinking and around every 2 - 3 hours. In addition, if you want me to
sleep through the night, then do not give me water after 7 or 8 p.m. A crate will help me learn to housebreak easier, and
will avoid you being mad at me. I am a Puppy, accidents WILL happen, please be
patient with me! In time I will learn.
I
am a Puppy, I like to play. I will run around, and chase imaginary monsters,
and chase your feet and your toes and 'attack' you, and chase fuzzballs, other
pets, and small kids. It is play; it's what I do. Do not be mad at me or expect
me to be sedate, mellow and sleep all day. If my high energy level is too much
for you, maybe you could consider an older rescue from a shelter or Rescue
group. My play is beneficial, use your wisdom to guide me in my play with
appropriate toys, and activities like chasing a rolling ball, or gentle tug
games, or plenty of chew toys for me. If I nip you too hard, talk to me in
"dog talk," by giving a loud YELP, I will usually get the message, as
this is how dogs communicate with one another. If I get too rough, simply
ignore me for a few moments, or put me in my crate with an appropriate chew
toy.
I
am a Puppy; hopefully you would not yell, hit, strike, kick or beat a
6-month-old human infant, so please do not do the same to me. I am delicate,
and also very impressionable. If you treat me harshly now, I will grow up
learning to fear being hit, spanked, kicked or beat. Instead, please guide me
with encouragement and wisdom. For instance, if I am chewing something wrong,
say, "No chew!" and hand me a toy I CAN chew. Better yet, pick up ANYTHING that you do not want me to get into. I can't
tell the difference between your old sock and your new sock, or an old sneaker
and your $200 Nikes.
I
am a Puppy, and I am a creature with feelings and drives much like your own,
but yet also very different. Although I am NOT a human in a dog suit, neither
am I an unfeeling robot who can instantly obey your every whim. I truly DO want
to please you, and be a part of your family, and your life. You got me (I hope)
because you want a loving partner and companion, so do not relegate me to the
backyard when I get bigger, do not judge me harshly but instead mold me with
gentleness and guidelines and training into the kind of family member you want
me to be. I am a Puppy and I am not perfect, and I know you are not perfect
either. I love you anyway. So please, learn all you can about training, and
puppy behaviors and caring for me from your Veterinarian, books on dog care and
even researching on the computer! Learn about my particular breed and it's
"characteristics," it will give you understanding and insight into
WHY I do all the things I do. Please teach me with love, patience, the right
way to behave and socialize me with training in a puppy class or obedience
class, we will BOTH have a lot of fun together.
I
am a Puppy and I want more than anything to love you, to be with you, and to
please you. Won't you please take time to understand how I work? We are the
same you and I, in that we both feel hunger, pain, thirst, discomfort, fear,
but yet we are also very different and must work to understand one another's
language, body signals, wants and needs. Some day I will be a handsome dog,
hopefully one you can be proud of and one that you will love as much as I love
you.
Love,
Your Puppy
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